Change...
Remember the time in school when you decided you didn't like your best friend that you swore to be friends until death the week before because you found another friend who had more cool toys and whose mother let you drink Cola when your mother told you 'Cola' was a bad word? You thought they'd changed.
Remember the friends at school when you signed the autograph/promise/deep secret books and you wrote in the margin 'FRIENDSHIP NEVER ENDS' but then a month after leaving school you realise what twats the were? You thought they'd changed.
Remember the friends at uni when you had long nights discussing the meanings of life and love and how bastards had done you over, then at graduation you tearfully exchanged promises to keep in touch forever since you'd gone to uni and experienced 'growing up' together, then 3 months later you find out that so and so who was you best friend then slagged you off behind your back constantly? You thought they'd changed.
Remember the mmajority of friends you met at work, and you felt close to them and then circumstances dictate otherwise and you lose touch and you feel that they're not close anymore because you felt they'd changed.
And then there is the moment of clarity where you realise that with everyone busily changing around you and you judging how different they are, you neglect to realise the main thing:
You have changed too.
Remember the friends at school when you signed the autograph/promise/deep secret books and you wrote in the margin 'FRIENDSHIP NEVER ENDS' but then a month after leaving school you realise what twats the were? You thought they'd changed.
Remember the friends at uni when you had long nights discussing the meanings of life and love and how bastards had done you over, then at graduation you tearfully exchanged promises to keep in touch forever since you'd gone to uni and experienced 'growing up' together, then 3 months later you find out that so and so who was you best friend then slagged you off behind your back constantly? You thought they'd changed.
Remember the mmajority of friends you met at work, and you felt close to them and then circumstances dictate otherwise and you lose touch and you feel that they're not close anymore because you felt they'd changed.
And then there is the moment of clarity where you realise that with everyone busily changing around you and you judging how different they are, you neglect to realise the main thing:
You have changed too.
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